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Judging People

The assumptions we make about people can cause us to behave a certain way toward them. If they appear poor, shy, or not well spoken, we may be rude or ignore them at best.

By: Natasha Morgan

We all do it, no matter how much we try to avoid it. There are not many who are so pure of heart that they can honestly say each time they make a new acquaintance, they keep an open mind.

“Don’t judge a book by its cover” is a quote that we’ve all heard but in western societies making judgments about people is …

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How Good of a Friend Are You?

Would you say you are generous, dependable, loyal, honest and caring? Which of them is most important and which ones can your friends overlook?

By: Natasha Morgan

When we think about our friends and why we like being with them, what often comes to mind is “we have fun together” or “we have so much in common”. Although these things might be true, how long would you stay friends with someone who was dishonest or disloyal to you?

Basic characteristics that most of us admire in our friends go far deeper. Then, how would you describe your best friend? Would …

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Alan Alda’s New Book

In his new book,  If I Understood You, Would I Have this Look on My Face?  he guides us through his discoveries, showing how communication can be improved through learning to relate to the other person.

Alan Alda, the award-winning actor and bestselling author, has been on a decades-long journey to discover new ways to help people communicate and relate to one another more effectively. In his wry and wise voice, Alda reflects on moments of miscommunication in his own life, when an absence of understanding resulted in problems both big and small

In his new book,  If I Understood

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Jumping Off the Happiness Train

One day I jumped off (or more likely fell off) the Happiness Train and realized what a man had told me when I was twenty years old.

In the model below, you might see a number of areas where you have specific or vague goals. Perhaps you want a healthy body that will carry you well into your nineties and beyond. Or maybe there’s an old emotional trauma that you want to heal, an amount of money you wish to possess, a spiritual experience you read about and want to have for yourself, et cetera. But have you looked at …

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6 Last Minute Holiday Travel Tips

Traveling at peak holiday times can be chaotic. By thinking ahead and making a few adjustments, you can save yourself frustration and enjoy the journey. Here are a few travel tips.

 
Make a “last check” list a few days before your departure.
Add items such as “water plants”, “turn down the thermostat” and “arrange for mail delivery”. No matter how much of a seasoned traveler you are, you can easily forget important items when your mind is skipping ahead to your travel.

Place your documents, phone, medications and keys in a secure place in your carry-on bag.
If …

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Creating Cards and Posters

You can make collage, poster, social media graphic and photo cards. Try it yourself. You’ll be surprised at how quickly you can be creative.

 
Every year, I still like to send real paper Christmas cards. Yes, I also send out some email cards but there is something about the tradition of mailing them that I enjoy.

The cards that I like receiving most include a newsletter of family events and a photo. I have friends living far away and sometimes years pass before we get a chance to see each other. The annual ritual keeps us in touch.

This …

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How to Make Over Your Closet

The best way to sort a closet is to pull everything out at once. A Hefty sack can be used to stuff inside the clothes you no longer wish to keep.

 
By: Stefania Shaffer

Let’s face it. We are regular people who do not live the lives featured in glossy magazines. We aspire to be neater, but to achieve this optic we would need to subsist on six interchangeable outfits of monochromatic khaki and white. What about winter clothes? What about navy blue? How can we whittle away our wardrobes to better suit the life we lead?

After moving …

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How to Care for an Elderly Hoarder?

When I said yes to the job of caring for my elderly mother, I had no idea I was also saying yes to care for a house that had been equally badly neglected.

 
By: Stefania Shaffer

Have you ever passed by one of those houses where the crooked garage doors are barely holding themselves together over the heaping bulge behind them?

Then one day, on your usual stroll of the neighborhood, those garage doors are popped wide open for the whole world to see. You shudder and gasp aloud. You don’t want to linger for too long because it …

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Reduce Arthritis Pain Naturally

A natural method to reduce arthritis pain, improve movement and quality of life can in many cases avoid joint replacement.

 
A quick test to see if you are suffering with osteoarthritis needlessly…

My biggest bug bear is when people suffer needlessly. I had pain and restriction in my knees with osteoarthritis for 7 years. When I stumbled on the solution it took me 3 months to resolve the pain and stiffness entirely! Nearly 20 years later I am still pain-free and have no physical restrictions.

Since then I have worked as a Physiotherapist specializing in osteoarthritis treatment. I frequently

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5 Common Traits of Terrible Nursing Homes

The best nursing homes have the best staff to resident ratios. Substandard nursing homes will try to cut costs by hiring fewer employees and nurses than they really need.

 
Moving a loved one into a nursing home is one of the most difficult decisions for a family to make. This choice can be even more stressful when families have to worry about inadequate care or nursing home abuse. Unfortunately, these problems are all too common. In fact, a 2000 study by the U.S. House of Representatives found that elderly abuse occurred at 1 in 3 nursing homes. According to …

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Not All Medical Alert Systems Are Alike

The best medical alert systems address risks with reliable devices that can connect seniors with help, keeping them safely independent.

Reviews.com has done a full review of  69 medical alert devices that run on cellular-enabled base stations and that connect you to an independent central monitoring center.  Here are just a few of their findings.

To get a complete picture, we encourage you to visit their site.

* Not all devices connect you directly with a monitoring system where employees are trained to assess what help to send. Some operate more like long-distance walkie-talkies that either connect you to your …

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Around the Word in Cocktails

We’ve got 16 delicious cocktails, both alcoholic and non. Read on and become the well-travelled mixologist you know you can be.

 
Stop everything and dig out your cocktail shaker immediately – we’ve got 16 delicious cocktails, both alcoholic and non, which will transport you all over the world and back, and all from the comfort of your own bar stool (if you don’t have one, get one.)

Kick back like you’re on an all-inclusive holiday on a beach in Puerto Rico with a classily coconut Pina Colada or climb the picturesque mountains of Peru to get your hands on …

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Pets Are Part of Your Family

Animals give us so much. Pets can help ease stress, decrease the risks of depression, and provide a consistent source of love and affection.

 
Nearly every morning that I go for my walk, I meet a new neighbor. Actually, if it wasn’t for the dog on a leash, I would probably just pass by with a quick “hello”. It’s the dog that looks at me and comes forward “smiling” and wagging his tail. I can’t help stopping and inviting him to come and sniff my hand.

This morning I met Calvin and his master Steve. Although they live only …

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Disabled Americans

Americans With a Disability

One in five Americans has a disability and needs assistance. A shocking statistic that should make each of us question who is helping these people.

The 56.7 million people in the US with a disability, look to their family, friends and community for assistance in coping with their daily activities. Some require help just to perform personal tasks such as showering and brushing their teeth.

Another disturbing piece of information is that people with disabilities are more likely, than those without disabilities, to report having poorer overall health, less access to adequate healthcare and more engagement in risky behaviors such …

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Vacationing With a Baby in a Rented Home

This is your vacation time; it’s supposed to be enjoyable. Here’s why staying with a baby in a rented home is better than staying in a hotel:

 
Being a parent is probably the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. Not too long ago I could list a number of scary things that I’d done that was worthy of posting to social media.   I’ve pushed a few boundaries, and tested a few people’s mettle and their patience, but it all pales into insignificance when compared to the task of raising a teeny tiny version of myself.

Nothing prepares you.  …

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